Do not Marry 7 types of Women
1.Al-Annaanah:
The woman who whines, moans and complains and ‘ties a band around her head’ all the time (i.e. complains of a headache or some illness but in reality she is not sick, rather she is faking).
2. Al-Mannaanah:
The woman who bestows favours, gifts, etc. upon her husband then (at that time or the future) says; “I did such and such for you or on your behalf or because of you.
3. Al-Hannaanah:
The women who yearns or craves for her former husband or children of the former husband.
4. Kay’atul-Qafaa:
The women who has a brand mark on the nape of her neck (i.e. has a bad reputation or doubts about her).
5. Al-Haddaaqah:
The women who cast her eyes at things (i.e. always looking at something to purchase, then desires it and requires her husband to buy it (No Matter What).
6. Al-Barraaqah:
The women who spends much of her day enhancing her face and beautifying it to such an extent that it will seem like it was manufactured.
7. Al-Shaddaaqah:
The woman who talks excessively...
{Taken from the Book: ‘A Concise Manual of Marriage’ by Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen}
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Assalamu Alaikum, what are the legal ways I could figure out what type the girl im going to marry. I mean what are the halaal ways I could follow to check if she belongs to any of the mentioned categories?
by looking at her as a person ... meaning in general . there are only 2 types of women , one who makes you and one who brakes you , you are allowed to speak to a woman before you marry her so long as your intentions are good ... if she lies to you on the first day she will lie for the rest of her life . don't forget acting is to hard she can not stay in character to long . always pray for what you want in life i,e. good woman
assalaamu 'alaykum,
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Wa aleikum salaam akhi, I will fix that asap insha-Allah, barak-Allahu feek.
As-Sallamu Alaikum,
I show some of these signs. And i am already married, how can make sure i erase these from my character? Is a lot of Du'aa on the subject sufficient?
we all have 1 or 2 traits of bad character ... you are willing to change thats a start
@Sister in Islam.
In my opinion, self realization is half job done. Good you identified that you have some flaws and even good that you already intend to correct it. Mere reciting Du'aa alone won't help. You need to put it in action. Give it a thought on how you can reduce it and gradually you will get rid of it over a period of time, very soon. Inshallah. You may want to discuss this with your spouse and see their opinion as well. There is nothing like getting help from someone so close and who already knows or understands you.
@fatima
No reason why a man should be excluded for some of the common flaws mentioned above.
Masha'allah...everything that is posted here and on facebook are so wonderful. Jazakh Allah Khair for this site...
just because any woman can have bad reputation/doubts doesn't mean she has to be single because Aisha (ra) was also surrounded by many 'doubts' but did she deserve that?!!!
Also, a married woman can complain that she is sick when she is not just to earn some attention from her husband. I have seen it with my eyes. Probably she was unattended for time being by her husband and she wants him to pay attention/show her that he loves and cares about her.
No disrespect but just because some scholars say something doesn't mean it has to be true !!
what if a man has all those characteristics?
i think sheikh was trying to advise sisters not to develop such kinda character to be good wives.........
one who z already married should work on it n those not yet married should b aware of it........
also these r some features not liked by husband most of the time.......
All praise is due to Allah,my wife has nothing to do with any of these bad characteristics.May Allah help all men choose good wives ameen.